What the dwarf is telling you is not the current state of the server but his opinion. Both alliance and horde guilds are screaming for new people to join their guilds and I know for a fact that if you roll horde, you will get into a raiding guild if you want to.
All instances used to reset every day on VG, how do you think all the oldschoolers got all their best in slots? Because they farmed BWL/AQ40 every day. Too bad it's not like that anymore -.-
Quote from rules. "We allow multiboxing, however, this is allowed for PvE only. Take note: You are not allowed to multibox in battleground PVP situations. Our Gamemasters are keeping a strict eye on this."
And Sins recently stated that retaliation is still to be discussed.
First, I don't know who that multiboxer is but it aint me. Second, I never actively pvp while multiboxing, I retaliate against any attacker. I multibox for pve purpose only. Third, search the forums, it has only been stated that multiboxing is not allowed in battlegrounds.